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By wedding On April 9, 2009No Comments
A wedding is supposed to be a festive, exciting and delightful occasion. But, when you are asked to say something to a wedding reception, it is sometimes a nerve-wracking dilemma. Whether you are the bride, groom, maid of honor or best man, writing and delivering a speech in front of so many people is not that easy.
People can sometimes develop “writer’s block”. This usually happens when you are cramming and nervous especially of what the people are going to say about you. When you are experiencing this situation, just take a deep breath and tell yourself that everything will work out just fine. Or, if not, here are some tips to guide you in your wedding speech writing adventure.
To begin with, gather all your thoughts and write them down. No need to worry on the organizational department yet. What is important is that you have to collect essential ideas and wonderful memories first to transform them into statements.
Once you have created an outline of your ideas, it is now the time to arrange them. The organization into chronological order of events and memories is crucial because you want the people to understand what you are trying to express.
Make the speech as clever, thoughtful and memorable as possible. Do not bore the couple and the other guests by an irrelevant speech or lecture-like wedding toast. Avoid humiliating stories for this is not the proper place. The last thing you would do is to embarrass the couple in front of their friends, family and other relatives; unless, you’d want to end your blissful ties with the couple at once.
Do not confuse quality with quantity. Keep your speech short but sweet. Also, expressing your gratitude is important. If you are the couple, thank everyone who made your wedding a successful and memorable one. If you are the best man, maid of honor or parents of the couple, give wishes of love, hope and happiness.
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By wedding On April 6, 2009
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A wedding is both an exciting as well as a demanding event to prepare. With all the activities involve to put together a perfect wedding, it is specifically stressful to the bride to write a great speech on her very special day.
Making a bride wedding speech shouldn’t be as hard as you might expect it to be. You just need a little creativity, wit, and humor to successfully pull it off. It is easier said than done! But, when you are already in front of a paper with your pencil in your hand, a period of mind freeze can happen. It is simply difficult for a bride on where to begin her wedding speech.
To begin with, gather your thoughts and start recollecting things. Write down any ideas that enter your mind. Do not worry on the organizational aspect of your speech at this stage. What is important is that you have something to start with-something to talk about during the big day.
After writing down all the ideas that come to mind, start to create an outline and organize your thoughts in chronological order. You can now develop your speech by adding your personality and style. You should try to keep it flowing where everyone will understand what you are trying to convey to them.
Remember that it is your wedding day. Do not put too much stress in thinking what you would write and say. Just make sure that your speech is not boring. Add a little funny stories or anecdotes. If it is still difficult for you to come up with any ideas, just be thoughtful and say your thank yous. It is straight to the point but meaningful because it comes from the heart.
By wedding On April 2, 2009
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Many people who are invited to attend a wedding are sometimes stuck for an idea for a great wedding present. A perfect wedding gift does not necessarily mean getting the most expensive one for the newlyweds. The couple sometimes appreciate those presents which are unique, carefully thought of, and come from the heart instead of those which are grand in terms of monetary value and do not have meaning and serviceability to the couple.
But, how do we really choose a wedding gift that is remarkable and can easily give the couple pleasure and happiness. Here are some unique wedding gift ideas to consider.
1. Personalized items. The most memorable gifts are personalized ones such as framed significant photographs of the couple, personalized beddings and linens, wall clock, china, etc. Also, having a skill in knitting, cross stitching, painting, photography, or potter making is a wonderful gift because you really made an effort and dedicate your precious time creating something for the couple. It’s not just unique but also a heart-warming present.
2. Home improvement. The union of the couple symbolizes the start of their togetherness and joining of households. It is great to give them something like a hardware gift set for the construction or improvement of their home as a family.
3. Honeymoon adventure. Instead of giving the newlyweds material things during their wedding day, why not purchase gift certificates to take care of their honeymoon expenses.
4. Entertainment collection. If you are planning in giving non-traditional items, a perfect solution is an entertainment gift package. Provide something like movies, books, and music collection. An entertainment package can be a perfect bonding activity for the couple.
5. Relaxation or spa gift certificates. A day of massage and pampering before or after the honeymoon is the best gift to eliminate stress and help the couple recharge just in time before the couple goes back to the real world.
6. A Piece of the Wedding. This is very advantageous for weddings on a budget. It will really help the couple financially for they will be starting a family soon. This way, they can keep their own money for other important expenditures later in their life.
By wedding On March 29, 2009
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A best man is not just an adornment in a wedding ceremony. One of the most essential tasks of a best man is toasting the couple. It’s a pretty intimidating and stressful responsibility-having to appear in front of a large crowd and deliver your speech. Remember that the bride and the groom entrusted you with this important role in their big day, so take time to come up with a creative, sincere, interesting, and well-prepared speech.
If you are chosen for this challenging obligation, do not stress. Below are some tips on writing a great Best Man Wedding Speech.
1. To begin with, reminisce and write some stories and memories that you’ve had with the bride and groom. Describe them then and now. How did the bride and the groom met. How did they grow to become the person they are now?
2. Research is essential. To make the toast more colourful and comprehensive, ask for help from other family members and friends. If you’re a first time best man, it is also helpful to read books regarding love, marriage and wedding speeches (as long as you make yours original).
3. Write your toast/speech to a note card, but don’t read straight from it. Practice in front of your family and friends who can give you opinions and suggestions and make adjustments if necessary.
4. In the opening of your speech, introduce yourself properly. Get people interested in your speech. Share some exciting and funny anecdotes about the couple.
5. Speak loudly and clearly. You don’t want to hear feedbacks regarding not able to hear your wishes to the couple.
6. Make a speech that is sincere. The couple as well as the people attending the wedding will appreciate things that come from the heart.
7. Keep your speech relatively short but sweet. Do not share with the audience long, boring, irrelevant, and humiliating stuff that will offend the couple and their family.
8. Finally, end the speech with wishes of love, hope, and happiness as well as congratulating the proud groom and blushing bride.
By wedding On March 26, 2009
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As the song goes, “If a picture paints a thousand words…” Your wedding pictures should reflect what you really envisioned and is reflective of your personality and style.
Once the wedding is done, the photos and video are the only testimony of the most exciting and highly anticipated event of your life. It is a one shot deal with no rewinds to capture again all the perfect memories and emotions. A wedding photographer is an investment worth planning and exploring.
Here are 10 tips to ensure that you select a photographer who will make your wedding day very memorable.
1. Shop around early. The best time to start looking for a wedding photographer is shortly after you become engaged. Good and experienced photographers are booked several months in advanced.
2. Experience Level. Photography is a skill that improves over time. Is photography just his hobby or his full-time job? An experienced photographer has a substantial portfolio that you can review.
3. Get References. Your best resource is people you know and close to you such as your friends and relatives. Look at other married couples’ wedding album. Ask regarding the photographer’s professionalism.
4. Meet possible photographers. Sit down and get to know possible photographers to view their portfolio and assess their personality.
5. Price Range. Be sure to set the budget beforehand and stick with it. Share your budget to your photographer so that he can also make suggestions on what to include in your package.
6. Turnaround Time. How fast will your photos and videos be ready after the wedding?
7. Photographic Style. Ask your potential photographer his plan on your wedding day. Choose also a photographer that has a photographic style that matches with your personality.
8. Packages Available. Remember to get the most out of your money. Ask for reprint package, discounts, album etc. You should be able to select the package that suits you.
9. Ask For Online Proofing. Online proofs can save you time, money and energy.
10. Understanding the Contract. A contract is an essential. Make sure you cover all of the money matters regarding your photographs and understand how much of a deposit you will need to put down when you sign the contract.
